“ Adik saya dipanggil ‘gajah’ berkali-kali oleh seorang budak dan bila dia pulang dari sekolah, dia mula minum air detoks lemon banyak-banyak,” demikian perkongsian model jelita, Haneesya Hanee yang kecewa dengan isu yang menimpa adik lelakinya.

Kongsi Hanee, dia terkejut apabila adiknya tidak mahu ke sekolah pada pagi tadi.

“Pagi tadi dia tidak mahu ke sekolah tetapi kami memaksanya pergi juga memandangkan peperiksaan sudah hampir.

“Apabila di sekolah dia berkurung di dalam tandas dan tak mahu keluar sampaikan ibu saya terpaksa ke sekolah untuk melihat keadaannya,” cerita Hanee mengenai kejadian yang berlaku semalam.

Kongsi Hanee lagi, adiknya telah dibuli sejak darjah empat lagi dan masih bersabar sehingga sekarang.

” Ibu selalu berpesan supaya jangan ‘balas’ balik. Si pembuli pula lebih kecil dari dia. Pada mulanya kami ingat dia malas untuk ke sekolah tetapi rupanya dia dibuli. Kami sekeluarga tahu masalah dihadapinya cuma kami sering memberinya motivasi, dia okay pada awalnya. Mungkin sebab dia pendam perasaan jadi masalah ini semakin besar,” katanya. 

 

 

 

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This is a sad story about my little baby brother & I hope people, parents, kids, teenagers or anyone will take this matter srs. So my baby brother has been bullied since standard 4 n he has been very patient with all his bullies because mommy never teach us to “balas” balik. Mommy also told him that “tangan adik bisa” I mean look at his hand man. All his bullies pulak smaller than him. Now adik is taking UPSR n he has this problem he doesn’t want to go too school. We thought because he mls but turns out he is being bullied. We knew the problem but we keep motivating him n he was okay at first but because he “pendam” his feelings it got worse. Yesterday adik was being called “Gajah” by this kid over n over again. When he came home he started to drink detox water. But his detox he put a lot of lemon. This morning adik didn’t want to go to school but we forced him cos exam is coming but he didn’t go to class. He was in the toilet because sakit perut n tak nak keluar. How we know? Mommy has this instinct so she called the teacher ask did he attend his class the teacher said no. Mommy straight away went to school n looked for him. Moral of the story, it shows that words can really effect a person no matter how big or strong they look. Bullies can be in many shape n sizes too. As a sister I see my mom reminding my brother not to bully anyone or hit anyone. As a parent you should remind your kids that bullying is not okay. If I’m a parent I would say bullying is a crime. Everything starts from home. I’m really sorry that my baby brother has to go through this. It hurts u know cos at 12years old he is going through a lot in school n school is supposed to be a fun place to go. Parents, do your part monitor your kids, do ask how was your day is in school, do you get bully, what did you learn today. Small things matter cos we don’t want it to lead too bigger matter.

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Kongsinya lagi, situasi begini membuktikan kata-kata boleh meninggalkan kesan besar kepada seseorang. 

” Buli boleh berlaku di mana-mana sahaja kepada sesiapa sahaja tidak mengira saiz atau rupa.

“Sebagai ibu bapa, anda sepatutnya sering mengingatkan anak-anak agar tidak menggalakkan amalan buli. Segalanya bermula dari rumah! Saya kasihan melihat adik saya sendiri terpaksa melalui perkara sebegini pada usia baru 12 tahun.

“Sekolah sepatutnya menjadi lokasi paling menyeronokkan untuk menimba ilmu,” akhiri Hanee. 

Nampaknya kes buli di sekolah semakin hangat diperkatakan. Kepada ibu-bapa di luar sana, jangan lupa pantau kegiatan harian anak anda. Pesan kepada mereka, jaga tingkah laku di sekolah dan jangan buli orang lain okay!